Everybody Fights Book Review

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Fighting is a normal part in any healthy relationship if you are being honest. You see that smiling couple below, smiles most of the time, but we have had times in which we call each other by our first names and that is the signal that we are upset at each other:) I personally believe in levels of just about everything: trust, love and fighting. Have I honestly fought fair in all of my relationships? No, but I have truly matured and had to not be so quick to speak, but quick to listen. In the end, we all just want to be heard and understood. How about you? Could you use some help? If so, I have the perfect aid for you and that is found in my Everybody Fights Book Review.

We take our cars in for oil changes. We mow our lawns and pull weeds. Why don’t we do maintenance on our marriages? This relationship is the most important one we will ever have, so why not get better at it?

For the last several years, Penn and Kim Holderness of The Holderness Family have done the hard maintenance and the research to learn how to fight better. With the help of their marriage coach Dr. Christopher Edmonston, they break down their biggest (and in some cases, funniest) fights. How did a question about chicken wings turn into a bra fight (no, not a bar fight; a bra fight)? How did a roll of toilet paper lead to tears, resentment, and a stint in the guest bedroom?

With their trademark sense of humor and complete vulnerability, Penn and Kim share their ten most common Fight Fails and how to combat them. Throughout the book, they offer scripts for how to start, continue, and wrap up hard conversations. Couples will emerge equipped to engage and understand, not do battle—and maybe laugh a little more along the way. 

In Everybody Fights, couples will learn how to

• use “magic words” to navigate conflict
• break free of secret contracts
• banish the three Ds—distraction, denial, and delay
• carry their own individual baggage while helping each other deal with theirs 

Everybody Fights Video

I enjoy how they both have their spin or take in each chapter of what happened, how it happened and then they take the time after the dust has settled to analyze the fight. We definitely need to add this to our arsenal. We want to make sure that when we fight and everybody fights, that we do it fairly, lovingly and respectfully.

Getting Your Own Copy of Everybody Fights Book

I know after seeing them all over the Internet and seeing the video, you want your own copy right? Well clicking here is how you can get Everybody Fights Book.

Who is it that you fight with but want to do it properly?